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Can i actually be bothered X 2. The reason why. x

Fri, 25/07/2008 - 11:58 by NeonNailvarnish-x

Well, 55 people looked at the blog "can i actually be bothered?x" so far. and only 1 person wanted to know. Lmao.
So here is why im a bad mate...
Ok, so you know about the texts from Lucyss bf. If not i'll remind you... Basically some were like "Oh, i was wondering what you would say if i asked you out next year."
And people are saying that he really likes me.
The problem? He's been going out with my best mate for about a year.
And i don't know what to do...?
Tell her?
Don't tell her?
Tell her, 'cos shes moving?
Don't tell her 'cos she moving?
Do nothing?
Just see what happens next year?
God, i just don't know.
And we went to the cinema the other day and i was sitting by my self on the bus so he came and sat by me and i was leaning on him and he had his arms around me and his hands on mine. And then he put his fingers through mine (Like backwards) and i didn't tell him to get off or anything. God, im such a bad mate. My excuse was i was tired, Ok i know its no excuse but i don't know what to doooooooo!

What would you lot do?
Please comment.
Lovee,
xxx

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Hiii.

Mon, 08/09/2008 - 17:59 by shawnarr

Judging by my own personal experience, i'd tell her.

she'd probably be much more happier, and she'd think you were preety amazing for telling her.

there is the other route though, don't tell her; but beware, you could lose a friend forever. It's your call, but i'd tell her, personally.

Hope that helped :)

Hum, well if you think it thr

Mon, 25/08/2008 - 18:03 by Yasmin (Anon)

Hum, well if you think it through.
You tell her now she'll flip at him then he'll tell her how you've played along so she'll end up flipping at both of you.
You don't tell her, he'll dump her once shes gone which will hurt like hell for her then when you finds out your out with him... unless its about 4-6 months after their break up she'll flip at you.
Although. He could dump her now saying 'i need to get over you i'm crap at long distance' so she'll hopefuly be over it by the time she moves then maybe won't be as hurt when she finds out you two are out. But most probably will still flip.
I think the best thing to do is for him to dump her now then you talk to her about a month after saying you have feelings for him would she mind. Of course shes going to mind but its up to her to what extent she takes it whether it'll be i never want to talk to you again or fine then bitches about you.
Hope i've helped, a tad :/ lool. I'm sure everything will be fine, someones going to get hurt but you live and learn. Take care xx

The mysterious "X"

Mon, 25/08/2008 - 18:09 by MissMistico

Hey:D.'

I have read many of your blogs, and they are really nice. Now, I just wonder, what the "X" in many of your blogs, your pics, your nickname ect stands for.. Wanna tell me? I'm curious:D.

-Bye:).

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Hey again.I read this blog ag

Mon, 25/08/2008 - 18:07 by MissMistico

Hey again.

I read this blog again, and decided to help you as the best as I can.. If it's a help.. :).

I think you should think about if you (maybee) wanna lose a friend or the guy.. If you take your friends bf, she'll probably get mad and sad.. Even if her bf likes you, too, and you say he does.. On the other side it would be nice to have a lovely boyfriend.. Think about it: Which is the most important? Your friend or the guy?

Hope I can help you.. Bye! And good luck!

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Third comment from me:) Sry!

Mon, 25/08/2008 - 18:06 by MissMistico

.. I'm not very good at writing all what I wanna say in ONE comment, so now you have three from me! Hope it's ok..

I would say, that a friend "keeps longer" than a boyfriend, so I think, I would NOT take the boy, if my friend was gonna be mad.. I think you should tell you friend about it, and say, that you're not gonna be bf with the boy, if she thinks it's a disaster!

I'm pretty ssure I'm finnished now:D Bye again! :P